Friday, April 2, 2010

Dinner and a show (and by show, I mean a rant)

I'm off work until Tuesday because the school's out for Easter Break (one of the many perks of working in a school) so Sam and I had an "adventure day". We went to see How to Train Your Dragon, which I loved. The dragon was adorable; like a kitty and a puppy and a bat all rolled into one.
For dinner, we hit up one of my favorite restaurants, Jasoh Prime and Pub. I love it because everything is made fresh; the bread, the salad dressing, everything! The restaurant's split into two parts: fine dining and the 'pub'. We sat on the indoor patio of the pub side with a lovely view of Historic 25th Street (if you don't mind telephone wires)

I ordered the pear and goat cheese salad because it always looked amazing and I've been dying to try it for months. It didn't disappoint:
Mixed greens, d'anjou pears, pistachios, and few pieces of goat cheese tossed with homemade sherry vinagrette. Yummy! It filled me right up, and I enjoyed it with a piece of bread dipped in olive oil and pomegranate-infused balsamic. They offer the bread and dipping oils free of charge if you ask.
Sam ordered the Picasso burger, which is a build-your-own burger dish with gourmet toppings like sun-dried tomatoes and sauteed mushrooms. I stole most of his sweet frittes, which are thin-cut sweet potato fries. They have a really good veggie burger. This place is seriously amazing and the service is wonderful.
Husband did not want his picture taken.
That's better.

Next topic: Something that makes me very, very sad and very angry.


Did you know this word comes from the Latin word for "to die"? I think there's a reason for that.
I see so many amazing people, who were blessed with incredible talents using so much of their precious time and brain space worrying about how they look and pushing themselves through grueling workouts and eating 1000 calories a day. It really upsets me, because I know what it's like to spend less time doing things I love so I can count calories, plan menus, feel like crap, etc. I know how it feels to eat lettuce and vinegar for lunch while getting up at five in the morning to work out and never see the scale budge. I've had otherwise perfect days ruined by a stupid number on the scale. I've hated myself, my body, moaned about my round hips and thick legs and soft triceps when I could have been enjoying my life. I've wasted vacations hiding in a car or hotel counting calories from restaurant meals and planning an attack plan for when I get back.

I've wasted too much of my life.

The ironic thing is, I once lost 50 pounds effortlessly because I didn't worry about it. Life was more exciting than food, and I only thought about food when I was hungry. As soon as I started obsessing about food again, I gained 20 pounds. Strange huh?

I believe that by treating your body well and not subjecting it to the mental and physical stress of dieting, it will find it's healthy size. Easier said than done; and believe me, sometimes dieting is a lot easier, but our bodies are smart. Throw away the scale, the meal replacement shakes, the dieting books and pills, all that garbage and listen to your body. It will always tell you what it needs, and by working with it and giving it the respect it deserves, weight problems will take care of themselves.

If anyone reading this is struggling with dieting or weight issues, I strongly recommend the books Intuitive Eating by Elysse Resch and Evelyn Tribole. Check out blogs like Beautiful You and Healthy Girl. Wear flattering clothes that fit, move your body in a way you enjoy, eat food that feels good in your body and don't apologize to anyone for not fitting into some cookie cutter idea of beauty. I can't stress this enough.

Diets don't work; and they can destroy you. Do yourself a favor and swear off dieting. You'll never regret it.



  1. great post! i agree - diets are no good. by changing my eating habits and becoming more conscious of what i put into my body, i gradually lost the 25 extra pounds i was carrying around, and kept it off. in the process i gained a passion for healthy foods and met many wonderful friends. win win!=)

    by the way, you and hubby both have very pretty eyes!

  2. I totally agree with you! Dieting is not good for your body or your mental health. I think more people would be happy with their weight if they just exercised and learned to eat healthy, instead of going on these extreme diets.

  3. This post is very timely for me. I'm struggling badly lately with obsessing over food. I lost 45 lbs almost 6 years ago, and maintained my weight just fine until last year when I went to Europe for 5 weeks. Though I wouldn't trade the experience for anything, the 8-10 lbs I came back with have barely budged, despite 95%-"perfect" eating and working out more and harder than ever. My mental noise over it has reached fever pitch, and just last week I banned myself from counting calories, at least for awhile, in hopes of reconnecting with my body about this. It's a daily issue. It's nice to know I'm not alone—even seemingly-slim people can have food issues out the wazoo, and a lot of people don't understand.

    I'm going to check out those blogs you recommended. Thanks so much!
    Btw, if you don't mind me saying, you're really lovely, and you've got quite a handsome husband as well! :P

  4. Aw, thanks Amber! And I've had so many people come up to me and tell me how gorgeous his eyes are. We both have really bright blue eyes, and I really hope our kids do too!
    And good luck to everyone with taking care of yourselves! I know it's really hard sometimes.